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TOOLS FOR PLEASING YOUR RUSSIAN WIFE
Really
these are tools for pleasing any woman that you care about. If you want
different results, you need to do things differently than you have in
your past relationships – especially if past results were less than
desirable.
The number one rule is that you must handle your responsibilities. This
sounds easy on the surface, but lets examine it a little further.
This doesn’t mean that you handle things at your level of expectations.
It means that whatever you take responsibility for, you must master. It
means taking care of things at the highest level, not at a minimal
level, or somewhere in between.
The exact responsibilities you take on are negotiable between you and
your wife, but usually to your Russian wife, they mean taking care of
the bills and taking care of home repairs, and other typical men’s
responsibilities like car repair.
Probably she sees her primary responsibility as taking care of the
house and the family. Your wife will be evaluating how well you handle
your responsibilities. You should strive to achieve the highest level
possible for you to avoid criticism
-- criticism that is justified.
Sex:
Another thing that you need to master is to give her the best sex you
possibly can. I am not going into in-depth detail on this subject in
this book. I am only going to offer you three small pieces of advice:
First, whatever you are doing – SLOW DOWN. If she needs to replay it on
video in slow motion because it happened so fast, you have not achieved
this goal. Learn about foreplay and take your time.
When you think you have achieved this goal, you are halfway there. Slow down even more. Your wife will appreciate it.
The second piece of advice is that you need to learn to love oral sex.
Why? Because she does. And I don’t mean oral sex for you, I mean for
her. Learn how and practice it often. Practice until you master it.
Lastly, take a shower before sex and brush your teeth.
Be A Good Listener:
When she wants to talk, you need to listen. That means if she wants to
talk NOW, turn off the television and listen to her. Don’t just put it
on mute and keep looking at the game on the screen.
You need to continually show her that you love her. You do this by
doing little things for her like leaving love notes and remembering
special occasions. Telling her that you love her every moment you can.
Think up new and different ways to show her how much you care.
Remember what was covered in giving gifts – lots of small ones. Women
are quantity oriented. The gifts don’t have to be expensive. Things
like sending her a love note for each day of the week is enough. Be
creative. Don’t always do the same thing.
Despite what women say, they don’t want to hear you talk about your
inner most fears, doubts, and concerns. You are the rock that they are
depending on. Talking about these things only undermines your position
and you appear unreliable.
I’m not talking about not dealing with problems or lying or cheating.
This is about not talking about your insecurities. Not only do you need
to appear strong, you need to be strong. Talk to your good friends,
your father, or your spiritual advisor about your insecurities, not
your wife.
Make Dates With Your Wife:
Take her out to dinner. Take her to the lake, or ocean, or mountains
for the weekend. Keep things mysterious. Surprise her with things she
will enjoy.
You need to work hard to stave off boredom in your marriage.
Relationships take work. The work isn’t over once you get married. It’s
only beginning.
Some of us not only get in a rut, we move in and furnish it. Be conscious of this.
Really, the topic of tools to satisfy your wife should be the subject
of a book all by itself. This section is merely to give you an overview
of the topic.
The real point of all of this advice is to remind you that the work of
wooing, winning, and wedding the woman of your dreams does not stop
once you get married – it is only the beginning.
The real work takes place after the wedding. Keeping your wife happy
and your relationship intact is the key. Learn from men who have been
married a long time. Watch what they do and don’t do.
You will learn a lot from them. They have mastered the art of making their wives happy.
by John Kunkle
John has been successfully married to a Belarussian wife for over five years. He has traveled extensively through Russia and other CIS countries. He will tell you why you should consider Russian women, how to meet them, how to bring your special woman home, and how to survive married life.
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